- To make the bearnaise, place the egg yolks and the coconut vinegar into a blender and pulse to blend. With the blender running very very slowly drizzle the butter until thickened. Stir in the tarragon and season with salt. 
- To make the steaks, season filets on all sides liberally with salt. 
- Heat a cast iron with bacon fat over high heat. Once hot, place filets in skillet and sear for 4 minutes on each side. Lower heat to medium and use a meat thermometer and cook to 130 degrees for medium rare or 140 for medium. Remove from skillet and allow to rest for 10 minutes. 
- While filets are cooking, make the asparagus. Place water in a large skillet that is 1 inch deep. Add 2 tablespoons salt. Bring salted water to a boil. Add asparagus in one layer. Cook until tender, about 5 minutes for medium and 7 minutes for jumbo. Drain, and transfer to a serving platter. Sprinkle with salt, and top with a pat of butter. 
- To make the crab, melt 1 tablespoon butter in the skillet. Toss crabmeat in butter just long enough to heat it, being careful to not break it apart. 
- To assemble, place filets on serving plates. Spoon sauce over steak, top with crabmeat, and serve with asparagus. 
- Best served fresh.